Can’t Fight Bulimia?

May 6th, 2008

Some teens are lucky to be on their ideal size; no matter how much calorie they put in everyday they simply have fast metabolism. But some teens don’t feel as lucky because of the extra pounds that are clinging in different areas of their bodies. And well, not most of these teens can handle the pressure of trying to lose weight and pressure of feeling jealousy towards other people. Thus, resulting to trying out different types of dieting programs and whether or not it would work, some of them start having different kinds of eating disorders.

 

Bulimia is an eating disorder that involves binge eating then vomiting afterwards. This process is called purging. Most teens who are bulimic tend to keep their condition a secret which is the reason why it is a disorder that is very hard to get rid off. Bulimia is a psychological disorder that will soon involve most other parts of the body if not given attention to.

 

 

Bulimics have a lot of attempts to stop their habit but they are weighing down two fears: fear of the bad effect of purging to their bodies vs. fear of gaining weight. Unfortunately for bulimics that latter wins the battle more often. What’s so hard about having bulimia is that it develops into an unconscious choice, no matter how much you fight it, you become unconscious that you keep on repeatedly doing it. The best chance you have is to open up and tell someone about your problem preferably a medical professional.


Why in a Bootcamp?

May 6th, 2008

Press have been watching boot camps very closely for anything that may stink enough to publish in their tabloids. Something that is very unavoidable since it is children’s welfare that we are talking about. After all the bad publicity, why would you even consider sending your child to a boot camp?

Simple. Boot camp is heaven compared to the uncertainties that your child will face in a prison yard. Be aware that if your child does any crime, a boot camp is a substitute for regular prison where your child will be mixed with burglars, rapists and murderers — once he finally come to the legal age. If your child hasn’t done anything that may cost him a couple of years in prison and you are afraid that at the rate that he is going at the moment, he might be heading there soon enough, send him to a boot camp. Sending him there may not discipline him but this will make him experience how it is to be ordered around constantly, act in a schedule set by someone else and associate himself with strangers who may have worse behavior than himself. In a boot camp, he will experience being treated equally with other teens, he cannot have his way or do the pranks that he got used to doing. There, bad acts are confronted, you can’t just turn your back and wallow in your own world as if you didn’t do anything bad.

This entry is not supposed to be selling the idea of boot camps to parents. It is a warning to the teens that boot camp is only the start of the many consequences that you will have to put up with in case you cause any trouble. And mind you, being in a boot camp is not optional for you, you will have to convince your parents not to send you there because only they can decide your fate when it all boils down to this.


How Deep is the Cut?

May 4th, 2008

In the latest statistics, it showed that the number of people who practice self-mutilation has increased. Health AtoZ reports that a source says that around 0.75 % of the American population are in the habit of either cutting, biting, bruising or even amputating themselves in severe cases. That percentage seem low but that is actually 75 mutilators in a thousand people and that doesn’t include those who are secretly doing the habit for fear of being discovered.

 

A high percentage of people who are into hurting themselves are teenage girls. There is no concrete reason as to why they do this but one of them is due to violence itself. Some of them where physically abused causing them to be disgusted with themselves. They may also direct their anger in form of self-mutilation at the person violating them since they do not have the power/strength to show their anger against the aggressor.

Self mutilation is starting to become common even for teenagers who are merely filled with teenage angst but there are other people who feels that they have deeper need for mutilation. HealthAtoZ enumerates them as:

  • Self-mutilation relieves unbearable tension or anxiety Many self-mutilators do report feeling relief after an episode of self-cutting or other injury.

  • Self-mutilation is a technique for triggering the body’s biochemical responses to pain. Stress and trauma release endorphins, which are the body’s natural pain-killing substances

  • Self-mutilation is a way of stopping a dissociative episode. Dissociation is a process in which the mind splits off, or dissociates, certain memories and thoughts that are too painful to keep in conscious awareness. Some people report that they feel “numb” or “dead” when they dissociate, and self-injury allows them to feel “alive.”

  • Self-mutilation is a symbolic acting-out of the larger culture’s mistreatment of women. This theory is sometimes offered to explain why the great majority (about 75%) of self-mutilators are girls and women


Understanding Why?

May 1st, 2008

In an episode of Oprah they featured some people who admitted into having a bipolar disorder. A previous entry discussed the characteristic of Bipolar disorder as an onset of conspicuously arduous mood (mania) followed by sudden episodes of total depression or vise versa. In simpler explanation, the person with bipolar disorder may be acting very normal one minute and the next thing you know he will be in a rage doing extremely destructive things that he doesn’t normally do. This is one of the most common alibis that has been reported to have happened in certain cases involving an extreme misbehavior. This is when they use the phrase “ to plead insanity”.

In Oprah they featured a woman who is experiencing that kind of condition, she was interviewed while she was in her cell imprisoned for killing her own son, strangling him while immersing him in a tub of water. They even played her 911 call in the show where she admitted to killing her son. They brought him to the hospital but he died a few days later. She felt remorse with what her disorder made her do but she never pleaded insanity for it and was convicted for murder. Having this kind of disorder is very difficult especially since the most common person that you are with are the people you love- your family. If you would keep on ignoring the possibility, you are endangering not only yourself but your entire family and any person surrounding you.

Some people who have bipolar disorder has already asked for professional help. They are given medication that can help them regulate their emotions and it has so far helped them cope with the disorder and have healthier relationship with their families. One example is Maurice Benard, an award winning actor who suffered from being a bipolar for years. In one of his roles, he admitted to have let go of his character to places that he shouldn’t be. This caused him to have a very severe attack that kept him in an institution for some time.


Foreseen Teen Crime Wave: A Science Fiction

April 23rd, 2008

Today, news headlines are bombarded with accounts of heinous crimes that were reported to have been done by minors. True enough there were such instances and there still is a huge possibility of other crimes to be committed by teenagers. School shootings, rape, murder and robbery – something you can’t bear to think that a child can do. That’s why, politicians started to pass policies that will obstinate crime committed by teens. But in a book by Franklin Zimmering, an expert on juvenile justice. This crime wave that people fear is a fictitious notion. A conclusion built with unjustifiable premises and as he describes it, evidence of a juvenile crime wave — either current or on the horizon — is no more substantial than the evidence that supports the existence of the Loch Ness Monster.”

Here are some facts that he discovered in his study. Facts; not something that is built out of exaggeration and imagination of a scenario that seems to be fantasized about because of its horridness, (sometimes politicians can be very good in making up bad conclusion to make people think that they need them):

–>Since 1980, arrest rates for juveniles, ages 13 to 17, accused of rape and robbery shows no identifiable trend, either up or down. Rates are currently lower than they were in 1980.

 

 

 

    –>The homicide arrest rate for juveniles rose sharply between 1984 and 1992. but declined by more than one-third by 1996 and, according to just-released FBI figures, dropped an additional 16 percent in 1997

    –>Most of the increase in the arrest rate for aggravated assault for juveniles during the 1984 -1992 period was due to a change in the way police report and classify such arrests. A lower threshold for crimes considered aggravated assault created a crime wave only on paper.


    Its just so depressing to think that a lot of people that Americans have voted to lead them has already placed a tag on 6 percent of the 21.5 million teens who are still in middle school at the moment; that those 6 percent will be doing heinous crimes – robbing, murdering and raping people at their teens.


    Tougher Ground

    April 23rd, 2008

     

     

     

     

     

    Most parents will usually resort to counseling when dealing with their struggling children. Sometimes it works, only means that your child’s bad behavior is not yet in it’s severest case or you must have been lucky to find a good therapist. Unfortunately it doesn’t always work like that. In the start of a session, most teenagers normally prefer not to open up to their therapist. In repetitive visit, they would start being selective in the things that they disclose to their therapist. After a few more sessions, surprisingly no difference surfaces because seriously theres nothing wrong with these teens, so there’s nothing to treat. Some of them simply got used to a negative behavioral pattern. 

    So what do most parents do when the time comes that they can no longer control their rebellious children? One good and effective solution is by sending them to a boot camp.

     

    Boot camps can help rebellious and struggling children who are unresponsive to normal counseling. Boot camps instill positive values to your child which he or she will bring long after leaving boot camp. This may be a process of enforcement of will but sometimes, it would take a tighter grasp on the teen for him to change. Showing them that negative acts corresponds to negative consequences may teach them that there isn’t anything they will get from misbehaving. Recent studies have shown that boots camps having succeeded where counseling has failed. So for parents who are having a hard time dealing with their children’s behavior, sending them to boot camp can do them a lot of good.


    Is Your Child Bipolar?

    March 27th, 2008

    Mood swings are normal especially if teens are under pressure, but mood swings that occur more often than the usual is something that a parent must be concerned about. Do you know that 1 out of 7 Americans have Bipolar disorder? What are the chances that your child is one of the 14.28% who is suffering from this kind of mental state?

    child with bipolar disorder

    Bipolar disorder is a category of mood disorder that is characterized by an onset of conspicuously arduous mood (mania) followed by sudden episodes of total depression or vise versa. Often times, the person with bipolar disorder could even feel a mix of both mania and depression alternating rapidly which is clinically called, mixed episodes.

    Some parents mistake bipolar disorder with ADHD or Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder because both illness is characterized by symptoms of the patient acting, thinking or speaking in an abnormally fast pace. If that is the case, how do you determine if your child has bipolar disorder? Kidshealth.org, enumerated the signs of bipolar disorder in two categories – mania and depression:

    Symptoms of mania include:

    -racing speech and thoughts

    -increased energy

    -decreased need for sleep

    -elevated mood and exaggerated optimism

    -increased physical and mental activity

    -excessive irritability, aggressive behavior, and impatience

    -poor judgment

    -reckless behavior, like excessive spending, making rash decisions, and erratic driving

    -difficulty concentrating

    -inflated sense of self-importance

      Symptoms of depression include:

      -loss of interest in usual activities

      -prolonged sad or irritable mood

      -loss of energy or fatigue

      -feelings of guilt or worthlessness

      -sleeping too much or inability to sleep

      -drop in grades and inability to concentrate

      -inability to experience pleasure

      -appetite loss or overeating

      -anger, worry, and anxiety

      -thoughts of death or suicide

      If these symptoms are present, parents are advised to seek professional help as soon as possible because the state is very difficult. A lot of people with bipolar disorder discover the existence of their problem during adulthood although they don’t necessarily incur it during their childhood. This condition may stay very long and regular stabilizer medication should be taken, some sample drugs used are lithium, sodium valproate, carbamazepine and many others. Doctors are finding alternative ways of controlling sudden onset of manic-depressive attacks.


      Teaching Tips: Teaching Students with Learning Disabilities

      December 11th, 2007

      Are your students having difficulties in learning new skills and remembering facts? Is the student having a hard time memorizing lessons and focusing attention in classroom discussions and activities?

      During school years, persistent patterns of learning difficulties are experienced by children and are carried over to adolescence. These difficulties and other co-occurring characteristics which affect the learning and daily functioning of children are potential manifestations of a learning disability (LD).

      What is LD?

      The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), a U.S federal law amended in 2004, defines learning disability in general as a “disorder in one or more of the basic psychological processes involved in understanding or in using language, spoken or written, that may manifest itself in an imperfect ability to listen, think, speak, read, write, spell, or to do mathematical calculations, including conditions such as perceptual disabilities, brain injury, minimal brain dysfunction, dyslexia, and developmental aphasia”.

      Learning Disabilities, which may be caused by hereditary, teratogenic, medical, and environmental factors, vary from one person to another. Some common types of LD are dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, dyspraxia, and visual and auditory processing disorders.

      How can LD be identified?

      Not all students who are slow in learning have learning disabilities but students with LD must be given immediate specialized teaching strategies to help them overcome such learning difficulties. Early identification and intervention are vital in helping students with LD succeed academically and socially.

      The National Center for Learning Disabilities (NCLD) in U.S. provides a Learning Disabilities Checklist to help teachers and parents observe and identify students’ learning problems and risk for learning disabilities. Click here to view the NCLD Learning Disabilities Checklist.

      Teaching Strategies for Students with LD

      Since learning disability is a neurological disorder which affects the brain’s ability to receive, process, store, and respond to information, students with LD bear a distinct gap between their expected level of achievement and what they actually achieve. Thus, specialized teaching strategies must be used to address the needs of students with LD.

      However, some educators believe that students’ learning difficulties could be addressed without having to resort to special education services. In the Response-To-Intervention (RTI) approach, students can receive special education in general education classrooms. Each student’s progress is monitored and is used as a determining factor whether the student can continue with general education instruction or should be referred for special education services.

      Please click here for the full discourse of the resource.


      Self Injury: Methods and Definition

      December 11th, 2007

      Self-injury, sometimes referred to as self-harm (SH), self-inflicted violence (SIV) or self-injurious behavior (SIB), refers to a spectrum of behaviors where demonstrable injury is self-inflicted. The term self-mutilation is also sometimes used, although this phrase evokes connotations that some find worrisome, inaccurate, or offensive.

      A broader definition of self-injury might also include those who inflict harm on their bodies by means of eating disorder, as well as tattooing or body piercing that goes beyond the limits of culturally accepted body modification.

      A common belief regarding self-injury is that it is an attention-seeking behavior; however, in most cases, this is untrue. Most self-injurers are very self-conscious of both their wounds and scars, and go to great lengths to conceal their behavior from others. They may offer alternative explanations for their injuries, or conceal their scars with clothing. Self-injury in such individuals is not associated with suicidal or para-suicidal behavior.

      The person who self-injures is not usually seeking to end his or her own life; it has been suggested instead that he or she is using self-injury as a coping mechanism to relieve emotional pain or discomfort. However, studies of individuals with developmental disabilities (such as mental retardation) have shown self-injury being dependent on environmental factors such as obtaining attention or escape from demands.

      Methods of Injury

      A common form of self-injury involves making cuts in the skin of the arms, legs, abdomen, inner thighs, etc. This is colloquially referred to as “cutting”; a person who routinely does this may be colloquially called a “cutter”.

      The number of self-injury methods are only limited to an individual’s creativity. The bodily locations of self-injury are often areas that are easily hidden and concealed from the detection of others.

      Examples of self-injury other than cutting include:

      * Punching, hitting and scratching
      * Choking, constricting of the airway
      * Self-biting of hands, limbs, tongue, lips, or arms
      * Picking at or re-opening wounds (dermatillomania), ulceration, or sutures
      * Hair-pulling (trichotillomania)
      * Burning, including cigarette burns, and self-incendiarism (as well as eraser burns, chemical burns [example; salt and ice burns])
      * Stabbing self with wire, pins, needles, nails, staples, pens, or hair accessories
      * Pinching or clamping, as with clothes pins, paper clips, etc.
      * Ingesting corrosive chemicals, batteries, or pins
      * Self-poisoning; for example by over-dosing on medication and/or alcohol, without suicidal intent
      * Self-injury among individuals with developmental disabilites often involves relatively simple actions, such as banging one’s head against a hard surface, punching hard surfaces, biting oneself (usually hands or arms), or picking wounds. It may also include pica, the swallowing of nonfood items, which can be extremely dangerous and sometimes fatal.

      For full discourse of the resource, please click here.


      Responding to Hate Motivated Behavior in Schools

      December 11th, 2007

      Youth violence is a powerful mover of hate crimes. In order for you to prevent the sprout of such behavior, read on and learn some tips.

      Plan Ahead

      1. Work with your school administration to establish a plan for responding promptly to hate incidents and hate crimes.
      2. Educate school staff on how to recognize hate-motivated incidents and hate crimes.
      3. Establish procedures for reporting hate-motivated incidents/crimes.
      4. Establish school policies which clearly indicate that hate-motivated behavior will not be tolerated.

      Response Strategies

      1. Respond promptly to incidents.
      2. Conduct a complete investigation of the incident, including the questioning of victim(s), witness/es and perpetrators. Report hate-motivated crimes to law enforcement. If there is physical damage - defacing, spray-pointing, etc. - take photographs. As soon as law enforcement personnel have viewed the damage and photographs have been token, have the damage repaired. If hate literature has been distributed, collect the literature for evidence.
      3. Train school counselors to assist hate-motivated crime victims and/or provide referral sources to community agencies. Reassure the victim and or her family that the incident will be treated seriously.
      4. Determine proper disciplinary action according to school protocols.
      5. If your district has a reporting policy, submit a hate-motivated crime/incident report to the appropriate district offices.
      6. Determine whether or not additional follow-up activities are necessary, e.g., staff and student awareness activities, responses to the media, etc.

      For the full article and resource, click here.


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